We blame others just to get out of our own misery

On the topic of rumination (as the focused attention on the symptoms of one’s mental distress), Joseph Everett have this interesting article with the gist that “self-reflection is good, but rumination makes you feel worse about yourself”.

And he quotes this interesting observation (by Arthur Schopenhauer):

The best consolation in misfortune or affliction of any kind will be the thought of other people who are in a still worse plight than yourself; and this is a form of consolation open to every one. But what an awful fate this means for mankind as a whole! We are like lambs in a field, disporting themselves under the eye of the butcher, who chooses out first one and then another for his prey.

Arthur Schopenhauer

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